[love and commitment]

speaking of love, i'm really happy for my fren! :) wishing you all the best!!!

let's see. today contenders are somewhat different from yesterday. on one side of the ring we have love, standing young, vibrant, innocent, frivolous, intoxicating, charming, romantic. then at the other end we have our good old friend commitment, looking wizened yet still pertinent, prominent, significent.

well the purpose of the discussion today is not to decide a winner.

the question being: does love include commitment?

somehow my first reaction to it, fundamentally is NO. we all love things. we love the clothes of the season, we love each new charming face that catches our eye. we love the songs of the season. and yes. we love the people around us.

nobody said if u love you should be held down by it.

so should we all just keep moving on to new people to fill that appetite of our great big hearts? that's a question i leave to you but i've learnt a few things about trying to make one last.

i guess in relationships an important truth that many reach after unrequited loves and such is that there is no single person for you in this world.

(get to the damn point you!)

we shouldn't think of door no.2. the way out that exists when we face problems. instead try to work a solution out instead! if u forget about door no.2 you'll have it all.

viola.